FAQ
Submission
Are you safe? Can I trust you?
For many sessions we’ll play with under SSC guidance (safe, sane, consensual), but for others, like hypnosis, we’re more likely to play under RACK guidance (risk aware, consensual kink). For findom sessions we’ll typically play under PRICK (personal responsibility, informed, consensual kink).
Sessions with me are meant to be enjoyable, and I want you to be able to trust me and focus on what we’re doing to make the most of our time together. Anything we’ve done, and whatever I know about you, will remain private. Exceptions to this are if you pose a serious danger to yourself or someone else, or if you consent to me posting about our sessions on social media (posted without identifiable details in all cases).
This respect for your privacy is expected to be mirrored. You should not go out of your way to find out information about my personal life or make me feel uncomfortable with any reference to kink if our paths cross elsewhere.
Do I have to tribute to play?
Yes.
The fact that I genuinely enjoy what I do does not change the fact that you’re required to tribute to play with me. Besides the fact I have a huge findom kink, I wouldn’t ever have a second free if I played with everyone who wanted to be hypnotised or dominated by me and I’d be burned out quickly. You have to do more than simply beg for it, you have to put some skin in the game.
To send a tribute, use a method listed on the Pay Me page.
I saw you talking about wanting a FLR, can I be your partner?
Hypnosis
Can everyone be hypnotised?
I’ve never been able to go into trance before, why are you different?
Some people need a little longer for triggers to embed and that is normal but there’s no reason you won’t be able to go into trance with me.
How will I know I’m in trance? Can I leave trance easily?
You can wake yourself up from a trance at any time. Your subconscious can do this for a number of triggers both in and out of trance, so you’re not going to ignore a fire alarm because you’re hypnotised, and you’re not trapped in a trance if you feel unsafe. I think it’s incredibly important that all subs that enjoy hypnosis are aware that they can and should leave trance, and a safe hypnodomme is not going to be disappointed or upset if you do.
It can get far more complex when under trance to recognise what may be unsafe, or there may be layers of suggestion that inhibit some of your mind’s natural safety mechanisms at times. It’s important to play with people you can trust, and that you share limits or existing problematic triggers (from life or previous hypnodominants) beforehand so these things can be avoided and you can enjoy your trance.
Some hypnodommes or hypnotists will tell you what the session will include if you are concerned about content. I personally don’t do this because I don’t enjoy the structured approach to hypnosis (if I liked it, I’d have clips available) and prefer to instead have our play flow and unfold naturally within the scope of questions asked on my form.
Will you hypnotise someone on my behalf?
Is everything you do real?
Equally, I have hypnotised men into promotions, personal development and with fully informed consent some risky/arousing situations. I also have a not-small group of good boys willing to do almost anything I say, for real.
So it’s a bit of everything, depending on the relationship, depending on the play, depending on the sub.
Anything that looks problematic is likely to be fantasy only or with a consenting party. Contact me directly with any concerns at RosieHenderson1@protonmail.com.