FAQ

Submission

Are you safe? Can I trust you?

Yes.
For many sessions we’ll play with under SSC guidance (safe, sane, consensual), but for others, like hypnosis, we’re more likely to play under RACK guidance (risk aware, consensual kink). For findom sessions we’ll typically play under PRICK (personal responsibility, informed, consensual kink).

Sessions with me are meant to be enjoyable, and I want you to be able to trust me and focus on what we’re doing to make the most of our time together. Anything we’ve done, and whatever I know about you, will remain private. Exceptions to this are if you pose a serious danger to yourself or someone else, or if you consent to me posting about our sessions on social media (posted without identifiable details in all cases).

This respect for your privacy is expected to be mirrored. You should not go out of your way to find out information about my personal life or make me feel uncomfortable with any reference to kink if our paths cross elsewhere.

Do I have to tribute to play?

Yes.
The fact that I genuinely enjoy what I do does not change the fact that you’re required to tribute to play with me. Besides the fact I have a huge findom kink, I wouldn’t ever have a second free if I played with everyone who wanted to be hypnotised or dominated by me and I’d be burned out quickly. You have to do more than simply beg for it, you have to put some skin in the game.

To send a tribute, use a method listed on the Pay Me page.

I saw you talking about wanting a FLR, can I be your partner?

It’s highly, highly unlikely, cuck.

Hypnosis

Can everyone be hypnotised?

Technically yes, as we go into various kinds of trance all the time. Actual guided hypnosis is not recommended for people with epilepsy or psychosis though and, even if your episodes or fits are rare, your safety needs to come first. As much as you may want to be hypnotised, I’m not willing to test the balance of risk and would instead encourage you to explore other related kinks for a safer experience.

I’ve never been able to go into trance before, why are you different?

I’m spectacular. Besides being a qualified professional, I’m highly experienced with both hypnosis and domination. No two trances are the same with me as I’m not working with scripts or set structures. My training and experience mean I can navigate all challenges that can appear, from minds that lean logical, struggle with visualisation, are hindered by anxiety and beyond.
Some people need a little longer for triggers to embed and that is normal but there’s no reason you won’t be able to go into trance with me.

How will I know I’m in trance? Can I leave trance easily?

Consent is a big part of all play and I don’t hypnotise without it. There isn’t a checklist to refer to with trance, it’s a different experience for everyone so some will compare it to a guided daydream, others like being locked into a video game, others say there’s no comparable sensation.

You can wake yourself up from a trance at any time. Your subconscious can do this for a number of triggers both in and out of trance, so you’re not going to ignore a fire alarm because you’re hypnotised, and you’re not trapped in a trance if you feel unsafe. I think it’s incredibly important that all subs that enjoy hypnosis are aware that they can and should leave trance, and a safe hypnodomme is not going to be disappointed or upset if you do.

It can get far more complex when under trance to recognise what may be unsafe, or there may be layers of suggestion that inhibit some of your mind’s natural safety mechanisms at times. It’s important to play with people you can trust, and that you share limits or existing problematic triggers (from life or previous hypnodominants) beforehand so these things can be avoided and you can enjoy your trance.

Some hypnodommes or hypnotists will tell you what the session will include if you are concerned about content. I personally don’t do this because I don’t enjoy the structured approach to hypnosis (if I liked it, I’d have clips available) and prefer to instead have our play flow and unfold naturally within the scope of questions asked on my form.

Will you hypnotise someone on my behalf?

Absolutely not, and I’m irritated this has been asked enough times to warrant adding it to my FAQs. No, I will not hypnotise someone for you. I will not hypnotise someone to suck your cock a certain way, to dress a certain way, to obey your demands. Not only do you sound like you do not understand consent when you message me asking this, you don’t sound like you know what domination is and I think you’re gross.

Is everything you do real?

Nope. Some things are fantasy, sometimes because that’s the only place they’re sexy, sometimes because it’s the only place they’re possible, and sometimes because it’s the only place that’s free of consequence. The fantasy about kneeling and cumming over my boots in your boss’ office while I film it to send to your wife, who you then divorce to focus more on my boots, might really get you going but it’s not a very good idea in reality.
Equally, I have hypnotised men into promotions, personal development and with fully informed consent some risky/arousing situations. I also have a not-small group of good boys willing to do almost anything I say, for real.

So it’s a bit of everything, depending on the relationship, depending on the play, depending on the sub.

Anything that looks problematic is likely to be fantasy only or with a consenting party. Contact me directly with any concerns at RosieHenderson1@protonmail.com.

Real Time

Do you do real time sessions?

Rarely, and almost exclusively with long-term subs. If we’ve never, or barely, interacted and you’re looking for real time femdom sessions (or any kind of session) then I’d suggest looking elsewhere. My free time is incredibly limited.

Is there any way to meet you in person?

Cash meets are possible occasionally. They’re always in public and there’s no play involved.

Can I approach you if I see you in public?

No, especially if I’m with someone. I am not a hypnodomme or findomme in every situation where our paths may cross. If I’ve publicly posted that I am in a certain place and have explicitly said it’s fine to come and give me a tribute, then yes, you can approach me.

Do you ever do public sessions?

I don’t do anything that others might see and feel uncomfortable about as a rule of thumb. I’ve spoken about and am a fan of public hypnosis though as it goes under the radar for others around and is spectacular fun to drop someone in trance and take them on a sleepwalk to an ATM.